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You Hurt My Feelings
Directed by
Nicole Holofcener
R
2023
1h 32m
Comedy
,
Drama
,
and more
6.5
94%
64%
Rent for $3.99
A novelist's longstanding marriage is suddenly upended when she overhears her husband giving his honest reaction to her latest book.
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Cast of You Hurt My Feelings
Julia Louis-Dreyfus
Beth / Producer
Tobias Menzies
Don
Michaela Watkins
Sarah
Arian Moayed
Mark
Owen Teague
Eliot
Amber Tamblyn
Carolyn
David Cross
Jonathan
Zach Cherry
Jim
LaTanya Richardson Jackson
Sylvia
Sarah Steele
Frankie
Jeannie Berlin
Georgia
Bryan Reynoso
Jared
Spike Einbinder
April
Walter Brandes
Chris
Erica Matlin
Ivy
Karolena Theresa
Marielle
Trey Santiago-Hudson
Billy
Doug Moe
Hal
Lynnsey Lewis
Romy
Claudia Robinson
Esther
Kelsey Carthew
Zoe
Clara Wong
Ali
Julian Leong
Steve
Rebecca Henderson
Alice
Sue Jean Kim
Bea
Mellini Kantayya
Salesperson
Deniz Akdeniz
Vince
Sunita Mani
Dr. Allen
Kenneth Tigar
Ed
Christian Jacobs
Robber #1
John Sousa
Robber #2
Phyllis Gordon
Eileen
Josh Pais
Josh Pais
Brian Faas
Fan
James Hightower
Second Fan
Nicole Holofcener
Director / Writer / Producer
Anthony Bregman
Producer
Stefanie Azpiazu
Producer
You Hurt My Feelings Ratings & Reviews
Kevin Ward
July 2, 2025
Julia Louis-Dreyfus is a treasure. Her comedic timing and delivery are impeccable, but her ability to layer an emotionally drive dramatic performance on top of that is equally remarkable. Holofcener’s script tackles the lies we tell our loved ones in order to save their feelings, and the delicate balance of honesty, trust and communication plays in our closest relationships. Really enjoyed it, plus it’s a breezy watch.
The Jewish Chronicle
Linda Marric
Around ten years ago, similarly themed New York cautionary tales were very much in vogue and I've no idea why Hollywood stopped making them.
San Diego Reader
Matthew Lickona
The film is handsome without being showy, stately without being sedate, and mostly amusing without being ridiculous. It's also slight, and slightly silly.
FilmWeek (LAist)
Claudia Puig
You feel like you've crawled into these people's skins and inhabited their lives for a few hours.
leonardmaltin.com
Leonard Maltin
'You Hurt My Feelings' is built on an almost Seinfeld-ish premise, but Holofcener takes this wisp of an idea and creates a likable framework around it with her actors. It's fun to watch and I had good time
Baltimore Magazine
Max Weiss
It's wonderful to watch these great actors living out this minor (to us), but major (to them) crisis.
Inside Hook
Charles Bramesco
We all share some pieces of Beth's struggle to take it easy on herself, chief among them the unvanquishable fear that we're not as talented at the thing we've committed ourselves to as we'd like to think.
MovieFreak.com
Sara Michelle Fetters
I have a sneaky suspicion I'm going to be pondering the myriad ins and outs of You Hurt My Feelings for quite some time.
Crooked Marquee
Kimber Myers
Holofcener's work has often focused on insecurities and misunderstandings in a way that feels authentic, and You Hurt My Feelings reinforces her position as someone who truly gets both her characters and her audience - and the criticism of her movies.
Rolling Stone
David Fear
Holofcener isn't cold or gratuitously cruel. She's just brutally honest, which is why she's one of the only people suited to make a truly funny movie about brutal honesty.
AARP Movies for Grownups
Thelma Adams
Swift, strongly acted, with sharp dialogue and wicked insight, You Hurt My Feelings finds the bitter humor in the minor apocalypses of the bourgeoisie.
RogerEbert.com
Christy Lemire
Holofcener finds both humor and wisdom within the complexity of her cringe comedy, providing rich fodder for conversations afterward.
Chicago Tribune
Michael Phillips
You Hurt My Feelings sorts through small and medium-sized slings, arrows, challenges and emotions, things that hide bigger ones, with all the right performers in place.
New York Magazine/Vulture
Alison Willmore
Louis-Dreyfus is an engaging lead, and her cuddly rapport with the hangdog Menzies is convincing, but she puts air quotes around the film's central conflict in a way that seems to confirm its triviality.
ABC News
Peter Travers
Never snap judge a Nicole Holofcener film as a sitcom. Just watch her steer Julia Louis-Dreyfus and a pitch-perfect cast to dig out the raw feelings colliding under the laughs to reveal a generosity toward human foibles, even when comic darts draw blood.
Boston Globe
Odie Henderson
The result is often laugh-out-loud funny. You'll laugh even harder if you recognize or identify with the scenario.
Wall Street Journal
Kyle Smith
Movies about the mini-problems of normal people are vanishingly rare these days, mainly because it's hard to make normal people seem interesting enough to be worth the price of a ticket. Ms. Holofcener has more than managed that.
The Atlantic
David Sims
You Hurt My Feelings is droll, but it's also an (appropriately titled) emotional roller coaster. Its adroit quality mirrors all of Holofcener's best work.
Slate
Dana Stevens
Holofcener is a writer-director in the truest sense, a filmmaker whose movies stand out for the attention they pay to nuances of everyday speech and behavior.
New York Times
Wesley Morris
I love a complete sentence for a title. Even better: a complete-sentence title that also describes a filmmaker's chief concern.
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